👀 A Blank Card Is A Setting
Name, age, gender, photos, interests, availability, last-active and live status are each
gated separately by this member. A missing card usually means "not shared with you",
not "empty profile".
How much you see depends on who you are. Signed out shows the least. Signing in
adds anything they set to Any Member. Their Only My Contacts fields need you
to be mutual contacts — ＋ Add Contact is one-directional, so nothing unlocks
until they add you back.
Their live status and check-in place never show to signed-out visitors,
whatever the member chose.
👤 Your Own Profile Has Three Views
On your own profile a bar at the top lets you switch audience:
🌐 Signed-out visitor, 👥 Any member, or 🤝 My contacts. The page
re-renders through the tier you pick, so you see exactly what each one sees.
It opens on signed-out visitor — the strictest view, and the one worth checking.
Fields you set to Only My Contacts (your last-active time, by default) are hidden
from the first two tiers, so a blank there is a setting working, not missing data.
👤 Edit My Profile goes to My Profile;
Preferences → Privacy sets each audience.
🛡️ Three Controls For This One Member
👁 Presence Shown points outward: it stops this member seeing your status,
place, "Here Until" time and check-in photos. They can still chat with you.
🔔 Urgent Alerts On points inward: it silences push, text and reminder email
for their urgent messages. It is not Block — their messages still arrive and still
appear in your chat. ⊘ Block is the loud one, reversible from
My Contacts or here.
⚐ Report User Profile sends it to admins and never tells the member
who reported them. No 💬 Chat button? Their "Who can message me" setting
excludes you.